Bragg’s Grace and Mary is
a touching portrayal of a son desperately holding on to his mother as
Alzheimer’s takes away her memories and sense of self. The ageing John makes
the long drive from London to Cumbria as regularly as he can but always with a
sense of guilt that he is not there more often. His visits are clearly painful
to him as he ponders the impact of the loss of personal history. His love for
his mother, however, is unceasingly apparent as he attempts to recreate her
memories of the past.
In her distress Mary calls out for Grace, her mother. Initially this
feels a statement of longing for parental comfort that never leaves us, a
desire for the innocence of times past. As the novel progresses, however, and
the story of Grace is revealed to us by John, we come to realise that perhaps
it is a distress at a life unlived, now forever out of reach.
Grace’s story is a sad one from the moment of her birth, her mother
not surviving the ordeal. She grows in to a beautiful, intelligent,
strong-willed young woman but is faced with numerous tragedies. The past is
clearly evoked in the descriptions of her experiences and the frustrations of a
judgemental society. John’s narrative is so detailed, so evocative, that the
reader forgets that we have an unreliable narrator. He is reconstructing the
past from tales his mother told him, fabricating where necessary.
He questions Mary, attempting to nudge her memories, to bring her
back to herself. At some moments he is successful, at others he pushes too
hard. Although clearly painful for him, when asked about his father, deceased
over a decade previous, he constructs an account of his day as though he were
no further than down the road, at their home. John delights in the effect this
has on his mother and allows himself to indulge in the fantasy.
A touching novel that deals with very real issues. The distress of
coping with losing a loved one to Alzheimers is accompanied by the pressing struggle of an ageing society to support its elders. John’s grief and
guilt are very relatable and the palpable love he has for his mother makes this
an emotional read.