Showing posts with label Elena Ferrante. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Elena Ferrante. Show all posts

Thursday, 13 August 2026

The Story of the Lost Child, Elena Ferrante (translated by Ann Goldstein)

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The compelling conclusion to Ferrante’s stunning Neapolitan Quartet picks up where the previous book left off. Elena and Nino are in the midst of an affair and on the cusp of taking steps that make their relationship their primary one, leaving their spouses and children. The first sections of the novel are focused on this relationship and its implications, for Elena specifically. Eventually she moves back to the old neighbourhood in Naples and Lila becomes ever more present in her life. When they both fall pregnant around the same time their bond grows closer as they face the challenges of being mothers again at a later stage in life. Will the devastating loss of the eponymous child shake them beyond repair, and will we finally learn the reason for Lila’s disappearance as laid out in the first novel by Elena looking back on their lives?


Elena’s relationship with Nino is frustrating. He is clearly treating her badly, trying to have the best of both worlds, and yet she can’t make herself leave him for good. It is only quite late in the novel where she sees him clearly for the first time. When their baby is young and Pietro continues to be present in her life, trying to support her, Nino is jealous and makes her send him away. Of course, when Pietro goes Nino does not step up. He is selfish and jealous, self serving, and makes life difficult for her. Thankfully, she has Lila nearby able to help with her daughters, although this can be something of a mixed blessing. 


Her sense of competition with Lila never leaves her. Elena can’t let go of the feeling that Lila is better than her, more intelligent, a better writer. Elena is the successful writer, respected in intellectual circles, and yet that lack of confidence lingers. Lila is no doubt impressive, in this novel running a computer business. She is inquisitive and able to learn seemingly anything if she puts her mind to it. But she is also quick to anger and has been limited by her circumstances. This is perhaps what Elena fears most, the rage that must have built up having such a bright mind but not being allowed to use it to its full potential. Indeed, people in the neighbourhood come to see Lila as an alternative power to the Solaras, such is her influence. 


The neighbourhood remains a dangerous place and Elena uses it to feed her work. When her reflections are published she questions whether she should have taken so much from life. She attempts to obscure the real characters she’s writing about but is unsuccessful, and the publishers relish the look behind the curtain into a very different kind of life, making it central to the publicity around her book in a way that feels uncomfortable. We see also the neighbourhood through the eyes of her daughters, who have experienced the comfort and safety of other parts of Italy. Despite the challenges and her financial position allowing her to move away, she stays. Her and Lila’s lives become closely intertwined as they live in close proximity and their children form tight bonds. 


There are many times throughout the book where family relationships are discussed, Lila and Elena's role as mothers, wives and partners. Their changing approaches to motherhood and the devastation of a lost child, how a moment can change something fundamental in you, is examined. We see how Elena’s daughters react to having absent fathers, and how the involvement of Pietro and Nino seriously impacts their sense of self worth and confidence. We also see how they interact with their elders. Elena’s relationship with her former mother-in-law and her own mother and how their ageing and ill health helps shift her perspective. They may have difficult, sometimes judgmental relationships, but they are important, and when they are gone forever it leaves a hole that can’t be filled. 


At the heart of the novel, as always, is Elena and Lila. We see them at times reflect on their childhood behaviour, and continue to be cruel to each other. Elena makes difficult decisions about what she can and can’t include in her writing, jeopardising relationships with those who have been in her life for as long as she can remember. Lila, in her generosity in looking after Elena’s children to allow her the freedom to pursue her career also seems to use it as a weapon. Theirs is a complex, fraught friendship but one that is ultimately essential to both of them. As they age throughout the novel we see both their insecurities and their sense of how they are perceived by others develop. We see everything through the lens of Elena’s insecurities, or is there some of Lila in the telling of the story? A heightened version of many friendships perhaps, but one that will be familiar to people who have tried to retain friendships throughout their lives. The inherent jealousy and judgment, love and struggle is perhaps something people try not to face in their own relationships but more often than not will be there to some degree.


This is a powerful conclusion to a breathtaking series of books. Ferrante brings to life the Italy of the 1970s and 80s and what it means to be a woman during this period of change. Times may have changed but working mothers are likely to see much of their lives in the struggle Elena has balancing her family and professional life. A broad host of characters are managed skilfully across the four novels, bringing them to a satisfying conclusion without ever feeling tokenistic or overly neat. Terrible things happen and we are told about them in such a matter of fact way it hits hard but takes a moment for the full realisation to kick in. A truly remarkable series, and the final instalment does not disappoint.


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Read my thoughts of the first three books:

My Brilliant Friend

The Story Of A New Name

Those Who Leave And Those Who Stay

Sunday, 23 April 2023

Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay, Elena Ferrante

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As Elena prepares to marry a University professor and move with him to Florence, she returns to Naples where her recent book is the talk of the town. Lila is working in a sausage factory where conditions are far from ideal, teaching her son to read, and studying with her partner at night. Their lives feel alien to each other and there is resentment and regret. Whenever they talk there is an undercurrent of tension. It is rare for them to reveal all to each other and they cling to and abandon each other as their circumstances change. Elena is afraid something will happen which will prevent her from escaping the life Lila is still living, who is being worn down by it, beginning to doubt her own abilities which are being quashed by lack of opportunity and the lack of time to do anything but work hard to keep her family afloat. For Elena, her attempts to create a new life for herself make her distant with her family and she becomes unaware of what is happening in their lives.

She struggles with the reception of her book, allowing reviews to colour her own opinion of it, swinging with every contradictory opinion aired. Eventually, she realises the real challenge is everyone from her old life having read it and judged it to be vulgar. When she writes a second novel and shares it with her mother-in-law and editor she is disheartened to find that they consider it unpublishable. The content being based around her experiences it is not just a rejection of her work but of her and the past which she is forever trying to escape.

Her relationship with Pietro is not a supportive one. He leaves her to manage their small children and their home, roles which she feels make her lose her sense of self and evaporate her creativity. She doesn’t share her writing with him, and when Nino reappears in their lives he points out that her lack of output has a lot to do with Pietro not taking on any of the burden of caring for the family. He prioritises his own work and does not seem to consider that Elena also needs mental space and time to achieve her potential.

Lila’s relationship with Enzo has some differences. She works until she is exhausted but Enzo is proud of her and treats her like an intellectual equal, realising that they need to work together to achieve their goals. Ultimately, they become successful and forge a new way of life for themselves. Earlier in the novel, she began to feel that her efforts were futile when seeing the grandson of her former teacher exceed her own child’s abilities in less time. ‘What a useless struggle to make Gennaro become smart. The child was already losing, he was being pulled back and she couldn’t hold on to him.’ This heartbreaking passage reveals the deep-seated advantage that privilege provides from a young age, and highlights how hard both Elena and Lila have to work to rise above the disadvantage they were dealt.

This third instalment is just as powerful as those which came before. We see some new, not always pleasant, aspects of Elena’s character and witness the world around them shift with civil unrest, making even the university halls feel unsafe. The friendship between Lila and Elena remains difficult, competitive, and at times toxic. It is sad to see them feel compelled to compete when they would be far stronger supporting each other. There is far more connecting them than separating them but they can’t seem to get past feelings of hurt and judgment to open up to each other and accept help. This is a compelling novel that considers a broad sweep of gender and social issues and leaves you desperate to dive into the fourth and final book, while simultaneously not wanting your time with these characters to end. 

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